When we talk to our male and female clients about their dates to hear their feedback, these are some examples of what we often hear: “I’m just not sure what he or she really thought of me.” “I thought we had a good time, he said he did, but I never heard from him.” “I…
Author: Randy Pickus
“Hanging On and Letting Go” – Love Matters, June 2016
We often hear comments about dating that are filled with frustration, impatience, and rejection followed by a desire to just throw in the towel. “That’s it. I’ve had it with online dating. The people I meet are not the kind of people I hoped would be there.” Women tell us that men don’t respond to…
Why Doing THIS On Dates RUINS Your Chance Of Real Connection
Your goal is to get to know him, not interrogate him! We all know that communication is the core of successful relationships. But how do you create meaningful conversation and dialogue when you’re just getting to know someone? Men and women often tell us that on early dating experiences—first and second dates—they feel as if…
How To Discuss Your Spiritual Beliefs WITHOUT Freaking Him Out
It’s only an “awkward conversation” if you make it so. “Spiritual but Not Religious” … 37 percent of Americans now describe their religious affiliation as SBNR. And this is showing up on dating sites as more and more singles openly describe themselves in this way. But is a “SBNR” mention in a dating profile an…
“Righting Online Emails” – Love Matters, May 2016
During our last Love Matters Hot Line call, the subject of writing online emails provided an active topic for discussion, and one we think anyone looking for love or who knows someone looking for love has questions and opinions. With only a limited time on the call, we decided to pursue this topic with our…