I can’t count the number of men and women of all ages, and in particular women 50+, who tell me that they don’t want to join online dating sites. They say it’s demeaning; it feels unnatural; men lie online; it’s too much work. they think they’re too old and that older men are only interested in younger women. They don’t like photos of themselves and don’t want professional photos. They only want to meet someone offline, not online…

But whether you’re single, and looking for love, or you know someone who is trying to find his or her Mr. or Mrs. Right, here’s some advice about online dating, and why it’s an excellent option.